Recognizing When Someone Needs Help—and Offering It

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Spotting the Signs

Not everyone will raise their hand and admit they’re struggling with technology. In fact, many hide their difficulties out of embarrassment. Signs someone might need support include:

  • Avoiding tasks that require digital tools (e.g., online forms, banking).
  • Relying heavily on others for simple tasks like email or text messages.
  • Expressing frustration or saying “I’m just not good with computers.”
  • Hesitating to click or engage out of fear of “breaking” something.

Why It Matters

  • Inclusion: People without help risk being left behind in education, healthcare, and civic life.
  • Confidence: A little guidance can turn fear into curiosity.
  • Equity: Those most in need often lack access to formal training and depend on community kindness.

Canadian Context

  • Everyday encounters: From libraries to Service Canada offices, staff often encounter people needing digital help.
  • Community-based practices: Peer mentors and volunteers can bridge gaps when formal programs aren’t accessible.
  • Cultural nuances: Some groups may avoid asking for help due to pride, mistrust, or past negative experiences.
  • Generational divides: Seniors, in particular, may be less likely to ask directly, even when they want to learn.

The Challenges

  • Knowing how to offer help: Well-meaning assistance can feel condescending if not done respectfully.
  • Patience required: Teaching the basics takes time and repetition.
  • Boundaries: Helping doesn’t mean taking over — learners must still practice independently.
  • Mistrust: Some may resist help from strangers due to privacy or safety concerns.

The Opportunities

  • Normalize asking: Public campaigns can make it acceptable to seek digital help.
  • Peer-to-peer teaching: Friends, family, and neighbours can create safe learning spaces.
  • Micro-support moments: Even a few minutes of guidance at the right time can unlock progress.
  • Kindness as infrastructure: Building a culture where offering help is part of civic responsibility.

The Bigger Picture

Digital literacy isn’t just about skills — it’s about community. Recognizing and offering help ensures that no one is left standing on the sidelines of the digital world.

The Question

If we want a digitally inclusive Canada, how do we move from “someone should help” to a culture where everyone feels empowered to step in with patience, respect, and support?